The wedding lasts a day. The marriage lasts a lifetime.
One deserves as much care as the other.
"I have found the one whom my soul loves." — Song of Solomon 3:4
The wedding lasts a day. The marriage lasts a lifetime.
One deserves as much care as the other.
"I have found the one whom my soul loves." — Song of Solomon 3:4
Before Forever began with something I noticed. The most beautifully planned weddings are not always the most beautifully prepared marriages. I created this space for couples who understand the difference and want both. A day to remember and a life worth living together.
There is nothing you cannot bring into this space. Your fears, your doubts, your history and your hurt are all welcome here.
Jesus is not a box to tick in your ceremony. He is the foundation we build everything on.
I am here to walk with you through the preparation that makes the ceremony meaningful.
Two people who leave this process knowing each other more deeply, trusting God more fully.
Every journey begins with understanding. Connection Points is a spiritually grounded couples profile exploring your personality wiring, communication styles, conflict patterns, love languages and spiritual gifts.
Begin →Once you have your Connection Points report, meet with Robynne online or in person to unpack what you discovered and begin applying the insights to your relationship.
Get in touch to arrange your session.
Enquire →For couples with existing preparation.
The heart of the practice. Most couples choose this.
Limited availability. By enquiry only.
Sometimes you just need a place to begin. Single sessions are available for those who want to explore preparation at their own pace.
Get in TouchCouples who walk through Journey to Forever or Leaving a Legacy receive The Before Forever Keepsake at the end of their journey with me. Handmade and personalised to your colours and monogram, it holds everything we created together. Something to open on the hard days and the beautiful ones.
Sermon Notes Keepsake
What was spoken over you on the day — preserved. Nerves steal memory. This gives it back.
Your Personalised Vows
The words you chose to speak — printed and kept. A reminder of what was promised before God.
Connection Points
A deeply personal couples profile exploring how God has wired each of you — your communication styles, conflict patterns and love languages in covenant.
Witnessed By
Signed by your parents, maid of honour, and best man — a covenant pledge of community around your marriage.
Open When Envelopes
Letters for specific seasons — when life is hard, when joy overflows, when everything changes. Anchored in Ecclesiastes 3.
The Before Forever
Memoire Keepsake
Before Forever · Robynne Todd
At a time when my marriage felt unsafe and beyond repair, Robynne stepped in with such compassion, clarity, and strength. She helped me recognize harmful patterns and guided us through a difficult but necessary process of change.
With prayer and Robynne's support what followed was not just reconciliation, but a true transformation in our relationship. Today, our marriage is built on mutual respect, understanding, and healthier communication.
Looking back, I believe it would have been so valuable to have had her help in addressing important issues BEFORE we entered into marriage.
Working with Robynne as our wedding officiant was such a special and meaningful experience. It never felt like just "planning a ceremony" — it felt like she truly cared about preparing us for marriage.
She has such a natural gift for connecting with couples, creating meaningful moments, and making people feel seen and supported. We are so grateful she was part of such an important day in our lives.
Intentional
You are not just planning a wedding. You are choosing a life. You want to walk into your marriage with your eyes open and your hearts aligned.
Searching
You believe in God and you feel His presence in your relationship. You want your faith to be part of your marriage. This is a safe place to explore that.
Healing
Life has not always been kind. You carry some hurt into this relationship and you want to make sure it does not follow you into your marriage. This space holds that with care.
"What God has joined together, let no one separate."Mark 10:9
Formal training in Theology & Christian Counselling
20+ years of personal marriage experience
7+ years of pastoral marriage & trauma counselling
MBTI personality profiling — couples & corporate
Johannesburg-based · available across Gauteng
"From the moment we meet I want you to feel seen, understood and believed in. I want you to leave our first conversation knowing you are in good hands. Not because I have all the answers but because I will show up for you fully, ask the questions that matter and hold your story with care."Robynne Todd · Before Forever
My hope for every couple is the same. That you leave this journey knowing yourself more deeply, loving your partner more fully and trusting Jesus more completely.
Tell us a little about yourselves. There is no obligation — just a conversation to see if this is the right fit for your journey.
Or email us at robynne@beforeforever.net